Crazy Little thing Called Life

If someone would have told me at 19 years old that I was about to meet my future husband and father of my children I probably would have kicked them in the shin. Seriously.

But here I am 6.5 years later married to that weird funeral director who took me on my very last first date.0816-DSC_0761

I never would have guessed sitting there in that small draft house that the man I was trying not to scare away by having diarrhea of the mouth would become my baby daddy….twice! I didn’t even like other peoples kids much less want any of my own that were non returnable.

But here he is, being a better dad than I could have ever imagined!

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It is crazy how fast time escapes you and how much changes in such a short period. I catch myself constantly wishing for the next step in life. When Tommy and I were dating I couldn’t wait to get engaged. Once we were engaged I couldn’t wait for the wedding. When I found out I was pregnant with Declin all I wanted was for my Christmas Eve due date to get here. Then I couldn’t wait for him to roll over, to crawl, to walk.

I am working really hard on trying to live in the moment and not rush things. They are only little once and before I know it they will be asshole teenagers who don’t want to spend time with their mama.

Time for me to stop rambling because Declin is currently jumping on Cooper. Is it bad that I am secretly wishing for Cooper to be big enough to defend himself against his brother??Β #sendhelp

Parting words of wisdom: Enjoy the little moments and stop rushing to get to the so called big things in life, because when you take a step back and look at all the little things, they matter the most.

XOXO

Tori

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16 thoughts on “Crazy Little thing Called Life

  1. arobles67

    This is all so true!! I’m always looking for the next step, the next phase, but I need to start living in the damn moment! Luca has been up since 5am, it’s 10:02am now, I JUST got him to sleep on my lap and his big brother is next to us playing and watching trolls. I think I’ll wait to take Luca to his crib so I can just enjoy this a little longer. ❀

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  2. Lisa

    I am so proud of you.. This is such a great thing & you are so entertaining in your adventures of life with Tommy, Declin, Cooper & Sargie Poo. Most definitely this comes so natural for you.. I am super excited to follow. Love ya ❀️

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